In this workshop participants will be given a set of relationship building blocks and we will play at different ways to put them together. The goal of the game is to try to build our most ideal relationship to meet the most needs, create the most love, and have the most fun and joy in our lives together. IAR is a comprehensive toolset for individuals, groups, and conscious communities to move into a new paradigm of fluid, functional, and joyful relationship dynamics, while exiting the patterns and programs of old-systems thinking which create drama, confusion, misunderstanding and pain. IAR is an antidote to co-dependency and works by repatterning consciousness through language. The new paradigm begins with 4 somewhat radical assumptions: Intention: All relationships occur through choices which are the result of humans pursuing their needs, wants, preferences, and desires. Autonomy: All humans are whole and complete in themselves and have inherent agency (freedom) in their choices and actions (inclusive of the universal right to consent). Mutuality: Humans flourish most abundantly when they come together from heartfelt desire and joyful celebration in sharing experience while helping to meet each other’s social needs. Non-Judgement: All relationship preferences are equally valid, and there is no “right way” to do relating. Come to this workshop to experience a completely new way of approaching relationships, to get clear, be sincere, and let go of fear.